Yes, I am “Abuser Blamer” + “Victim Blamer”!

Yes, I am “Abuser Blamer” + “Victim Blamer”!
When I quote Quranic Verse or Hadith for the woman I label as “Victim Blamer”, but not “Abuser Blamer” when I quote for man, Why?

The first thing that was happened on 14th August at Minar-e-Pakistan was wrong, we condemn it, all those who did it should be severely punished.

The girl put a story on TikTok that she will come to Minar-e-Pakistan on 14th August. Then she would go with her boyfriend (Iftikhar) and allow the obscene boys to take pictures. After which there was a rush and some wild animals (boys) took advantage.

The question is that the people are declaring her mentally disturbed, if she were, would it be like this disturbed, still making TikTok videos with his boyfriend (Iftikhar)?

She posted this picture on Instagram on August 15. If it wasn’t for the August 14 drama, she should have been shocked the next day. but when on 17th August videos goes viral she goes to media & police.

For me, every woman is honorable, no matter who she is, but for her publicity. She tries to tarnish the name of my country.

This is the third incident. First, they act, then they collect sympathies, then they are exposed by our own hands.

Neither the woman was raped. It is also true that when the crowd was large, only a few men among the men in the crowd took the woman to a respectable house.
What happened was wrong, but in all this, was it just the wrong men?

The seven famous TikTokers had been invited by her to take selfies and videos. People in the park would also gather to watch these seven boys.
When the men’s gathering started, some animals (boys) in the crowd did harassment.

I already quoted Hadith for man’s moral & ethical values in my previous blog. In which I am quoting Quranic Verses & Hadith for Muslim Woman. Surely now I will be labeled as a “victim blamer” because now I am quoting Quranic Verses & Hadith woman.

اور اپنے گھروں میں ٹھہری رہو اور بے پردہ نہ رہو جیسے اگلی جاہلیت کی بے پردگی اور نماز قائم رکھو اور زکوٰۃ دو اور اللہ اور اس کے رسول کا حکم مانو اللہ تو یہی چاہتا ہے اے نبی کے گھر والو کہ تم سے ہر ناپاکی دُور فرما دے اور تمہیں پاک کرکے خوب ستھرا کردے۔
(الاحزاب ۳۳)

Settle in your homes, and do not display yourselves as women did in the days of ˹pre-Islamic˺ ignorance. Establish prayer, pay alms-tax, and obey Allah and His Messenger. Allah only intends to keep ˹the causes of˺ evil away from you and purify you completely.
(Quran, Surah Al-Ahzab, Verse 33)

When a normal man or Muslim says the woman should not go along outside people will label him ‘victim blamer’. The man just said this because he knows how the majority of our society’s men are! Nauzubillah are you also calling victim blamer to our Allah’s Last Messenger (ﷺ)?

Because Allah’s Last Messenger said, “A woman should not travel except with a Dhu-Mahram (her husband or a man with whom that woman cannot marry at all according to the Islamic Jurisprudence), and no man may visit her except in the presence of a Dhu-Mahram.”
(Sahih al-Bukhari 1862, Book 28, Hadith 42)